Everyone looks forward to spending time with family. Travelling long distances means nothing when you are going to be with your loved ones. It is a time to be with loved ones. But there are a lot of people who decided to leave early. This might be because of the conversations and the jokes that end up offending the next person.
As you travel home to be with family I want you to be kind to others. To avoid asking questions that might offend the next person. Stop asking people questions about their weight, when they will have another child, or when they will get married. Not everyone is willing to openly share that they have been trying to have a baby for some time, or that they cannot have another child because of a health condition.
Stop treating vakuwasha by their titles, or giving the muroora certain privileges because she sends money or groceries every month. Dear in-laws treat everyone fairly this festive holiday.
The Baobab 
So true.At times its much safer to stay away because one cannot handle the mental strain
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I agree with you and it ends up being a long day. What matters is prioritising your mental health
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