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The uncalled-for questions series: Why I don’t have a boyfriend

Welcome to the last episode of the uncalled-for questions series. This is the last episode and I am hurt that the series has to come to an end. But I am forever grateful to the six women who chose to share their stories. Dear reader, I do hope that this series taught you something IContinue reading “The uncalled-for questions series: Why I don’t have a boyfriend”

The uncalled for questions series: Why are you not applying for a job?

Being unemployed is challenging on its own, but imagine being asked if you are applying or not. Some questions are not appropriate, and people should learn to be more lenient when they ask such questions. If you cannot ask in a way that it’s not offensive, simply keep it to yourself. No one, in theirContinue reading “The uncalled for questions series: Why are you not applying for a job?”

The uncalled for questions series: Why are you not getting married?

Welcome to The Baobab. It’s the last week of the series. I hope you have learned a lot of lessons. A big thank you to everyone who took part in the series. I remember being a teenager and wishing I was an adult. Now, I am finally an adult and this phase is hard. NoContinue reading “The uncalled for questions series: Why are you not getting married?”

Uncalled for questions: Why I am no longer talking about love?

Once upon a time, I was a hopeless romantic, a dreamer, a lover, and a seeker of butterflies. I had big plans and they all included settling down with the cream cheese to my cinnamon rolls and popping some hot cross buns. That never happened till I met the man I hoped I would marry.Continue reading “Uncalled for questions: Why I am no longer talking about love?”

Uncalled for questions: Why I don’t have children?

I want to be ready before I have children. I want to be financially ready so that my children do not grow up thinking that they are a financial burden.I want to be financially ready so that in my old age I will be able to take care of myself and not rely on myContinue reading “Uncalled for questions: Why I don’t have children?”

The uncalled for questions series

Did you know that some people in society are normalizing what is not normal? Some people don’t know when to draw the line and they hurt and kill someone slowly. On the other hand, some people just find so much joy in watching the next person cry. I have been asked a lot of weirdContinue reading “The uncalled for questions series”

Uncalled-for questions:Why I have gained weight

My family always tells me that I have always been a bubbly, goal-getter, determined, and energetic soul. I loved who I was and I never had insecurities about my body. The body- shaming conversation never had room in our household. Although my friends were not big-bodied I never had insecurities about my body. They treatedContinue reading “Uncalled-for questions:Why I have gained weight”